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Attachment and Abandonment Workbook: 70+ Exercises

One unanswered text and your stomach drops. This attachment workbook gives you more than 70 exercises and worksheets on attachment style, fear of abandonment and the patterns you repeat in relationships.

Use this when

One unanswered message sends you into panic, or closeness makes you want to run.

Original price was: £18.00.Current price is: £6.99.

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About this download

Illustration of a couple reaching across a barrier to touch hands at a train station

Homework for the fear of being left

They take four hours to reply and by the second hour you have drafted the break-up in your head. Fear of abandonment reads silence as rejection, and the body reacts before you have checked the facts.

This workbook starts with what attachment is and the four adult styles, then gives each style its own healing pages. From there it moves to the fear itself: where it began, what it makes you do, and which parts sit inside your control. The final section looks at adverse childhood experiences and the child who learned those survival habits first.

Inside this workbook

  • What is attachment, and the four adult styles
  • Secure, anxious, avoidant and fearful attachment in adults, each with a healing page
  • Attachment flashbacks and my survival behaviours
  • Attachment journal: what happened, how I reacted, why
  • Stages of attachment and childhood experiences
  • Fear of abandonment: sources of fear, circle of control, managing anxiety, practical steps
  • Self-abandonment
  • Relationship values and I am worthy
  • Adverse childhood experiences, safety at home, understanding caregivers
  • Thank you, little me

PDF, 46 pages, A4. Print at home or fill in on screen. Instant download after payment.

This workbook is an educational resource. It does not replace therapy, medical care or crisis support. If you feel unsafe, contact your GP, NHS 111 or your local emergency services.

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Attachment and Abandonment Workbook, inside pages 5 and 6

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Page 5: ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT IN ADULTS Because love and security was unpredictab. Page 6: HEALING FROM ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT Because our relational habits are so d.

Attachment and Abandonment Workbook, pages 5, 9, 13 fanned out

Pages 5, 9 and 13

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Pages 5, 9 and 13

Page 5: ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT IN ADULTS Because love and security was unpredictab. Page 9: FEARFUL ATTACHMENT IN ADULTS Fearful attachment is often accompanied b. Page 13: MY SURVIVAL BEHAVIOURS In the left column, write down the top 3 surviv.

Attachment and Abandonment Workbook, inside pages 9 and 10

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Page 9: FEARFUL ATTACHMENT IN ADULTS Fearful attachment is often accompanied b. Page 10: HEALING FROM FEARFUL ATTACHMENT Fearful attachment can cause immense d.

Attachment and Abandonment Workbook, inside pages 13 and 14

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Page 13: MY SURVIVAL BEHAVIOURS In the left column, write down the top 3 surviv. Page 14: SHIFTING MY SURVIVAL BEHAVIOURS Use this worksheet to help you underst.

Questions buyers ask

Do both partners need to take part?

No. Most of these workbooks are for one person. A change in one partner's responses often shifts the pattern between two people.

Do these replace couples therapy?

No. They help you understand a pattern and practise a new response. For entrenched conflict, betrayal or separation, see a couples therapist.

Is this suitable if my partner frightens me?

No. Couple exercises are unsafe where there is fear, control or violence. In the UK, call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.

How do I get the file after paying?

The download links appear on the order confirmation page and arrive by email once payment clears. No account is needed, and you keep the files.

When a worksheet is not enough

Some problems need another person in the room. Kita Tabachka, the BACP registered therapist behind this shop, works online with individuals and couples in the UK and abroad. The first consultation is free.

Description

Illustration of a couple reaching across a barrier to touch hands at a train station

Homework for the fear of being left

They take four hours to reply and by the second hour you have drafted the break-up in your head. Fear of abandonment reads silence as rejection, and the body reacts before you have checked the facts.

This workbook starts with what attachment is and the four adult styles, then gives each style its own healing pages. From there it moves to the fear itself: where it began, what it makes you do, and which parts sit inside your control. The final section looks at adverse childhood experiences and the child who learned those survival habits first.

Inside this workbook

  • What is attachment, and the four adult styles
  • Secure, anxious, avoidant and fearful attachment in adults, each with a healing page
  • Attachment flashbacks and my survival behaviours
  • Attachment journal: what happened, how I reacted, why
  • Stages of attachment and childhood experiences
  • Fear of abandonment: sources of fear, circle of control, managing anxiety, practical steps
  • Self-abandonment
  • Relationship values and I am worthy
  • Adverse childhood experiences, safety at home, understanding caregivers
  • Thank you, little me

PDF, 46 pages, A4. Print at home or fill in on screen. Instant download after payment.

This workbook is an educational resource. It does not replace therapy, medical care or crisis support. If you feel unsafe, contact your GP, NHS 111 or your local emergency services.

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