Relationships and Attachment

The same argument arrives again, in the kitchen, in the car, by text. These workbooks help you see the pattern under the argument: attachment fears, drama triangle roles, gaslighting and conflict habits. Each one ends with something to practise. They suit relationships with ordinary conflict and distance. If you feel afraid of your partner, or face control, threats or violence, contact a domestic abuse service instead of using couple exercises.

Illustration of a couple at one table, each drawing a separate route on a shared map

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Match the workbook to the pattern

You panic when a partner goes quiet, or you pull away when someone gets close: the attachment workbook has more than 70 exercises on attachment style and fear of abandonment. You keep rescuing, blaming or feeling helpless in the same relationships: the drama triangle worksheets name the role and the way out of it.

Arguments at home or at work escalate fast: the conflict resolution worksheets help you find triggers and plan a difficult conversation. You doubt your own memory after talking to one particular person: read the gaslighting ebook. For couples who have run out of things to say, the 1002 questions for couples restart the conversation.

Also useful: self-esteem worksheets and trauma and grief workbooks.

Questions buyers ask

Do both partners need to take part?

No. Most of these workbooks are for one person. A change in one partner's responses often shifts the pattern between two people.

Do these replace couples therapy?

No. They help you understand a pattern and practise a new response. For entrenched conflict, betrayal or separation, see a couples therapist.

Is this suitable if my partner frightens me?

No. Couple exercises are unsafe where there is fear, control or violence. In the UK, call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.

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Material by Kita Tabachka, BACP registered relational therapist.

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